Phyllis (Kayser) Opinsky, 80, of West Hartford, died Oct. 15. She was the widow of Dr. Jack S. Opinsky.  Born in Hartford, she was the daughter of the late James and Mildred Kayser. She was the beloved mother of Martin (Kathy) Opinsky of Bristol, Heidi Opinsky (Alan) Schachter of Redding, and Jami Opinsky (Richard) Goldman of Old Greenwich; and her grandchildren, Alexis and Justin Schachter, and Samantha and Matthew Goldman. She was also predeceased by her sister, Rita Kayser Evanier.