Barbara L. (Hatch) Bernstein, 69, of Framingham, Mass. died March 3.  She was the wife of Marvin Bernstein.  She was the daughter of the late Bette and Leon Hatch.  In addition to her husband, she is survived by her children, Deena (Eric) Aborjaily, and Mitchel (Stacy) Bernstein; her siblings, Joel (Janet) Hatch, Avie (Roy) Lemire, and Ada (Howard) Selwitz; and her grandchildren, Simon, Spencer, Justin and Amira.