Eileen M. Ilberman, 62, of Old Saybrook and Rancho Mirage, Calif., died Nov. 22. She was the wife of Barry Ilberman. She was the daughter of Elaine (Morganbesser) Mellion and the late Franklyn B. Mellion. In addition to her husband and mother, she is survived by her daughter, Jodi Hope (Ilberman) and her husband Christopher Soloperto; and her grandchildren, Emma Beth and Jason Bauer Soloperto; and her brother David Mellion She was also predeceased by her sister, Debra Ann (Mellion) Prastien.