Stephen Alan Rubinstein, 77, of Stow, Mass., died Nov. 19. Born in Fitchburg, Mass., he was the son of Philip and Dorothy (Fergenson) Rubinstein. He served in the U.S. Army as a Chaplain’s Assistant during the Vietnam War. He is survived by his partner Nancy Maldari of Stow; his sister Lisa Scholl and her husband Joseph of Waltham, Mass.; his brother Neal Rubinstein and his wife Isabelle Arndt of Chester Springs, Penn; two children; four grandchildren; and four nieces and nephews.