Stephen A. Warshaw of Danbury, Conn., formerly of Longmeadow, Mass., died Nov. 3.  He was the husband of Cynthia Lucash Warshaw. He was the son of Judith Warshaw and Stuart Warshaw, both of Longmeadow, Mass. In addition to his wife and his parents, he is survived by his children, Hannah and Anderson, both of Warren, Conn.; his sister Cathy Warshaw of North Grafton, Mass.; his aunts Carol Levine and Carol Weiser ;and many cousins.