Ethelyn (Cohen) (Goldstein) Bessel, of Longmeadow, Mass., died Dec. 23. She was the widow of Harold Goldstein and Jack Bessel. Born in Springfield, Mass., she was the daughter of the late Max and Daisy (Horowitz) Cohen. She is survived by a sister, Ruth Katz and her husband, David; her children, Jill, Robert and his wife, Faith, and Patti; five granddaughters, Hannah (Josh), Sarah, Emma, Hallie, and Danielle; a great-granddaughter Bella; and many nieces and nephews. She was also predeceased by a sister, Irma Goldsmith.