Joan (Lampert) Gordon, 91, of Farmington, formerly of Middletown, died Dec. 3. She was the widow of Jack Gordon. Born in Brooklyn, N.Y., she was the daughter of the late Nathan and Frances Lampert. She was a member of Congregation Adath Israel. She is survived by her daughters, Sheryl Oken and her fiancé Steve Kaplan of East Hampton, Nancy Raymond and her husband Michael of Chuluota, Fla., and Jill Weisenberg and her husband Neil; her grandchildren, Gregory, Erin, Kelly and Adam. She was predeceased by her son-in-law, Murray Oken, six sisters and one brother.