Pamela Gayle Feigenbaum, 59, of Chesterfield, Mo., formerly of Fairfax County, Va. died Oct. 28.  Born in Hartford, she was the daughter of the late Morris and Sylvia (Kotkin) Feigenbaum. She was a member of Nusach Hari B’Nai Zion synagogue in Olivette, Mo. She is survived by her sisters, Susan Feigenbaum and her husband Jay Pepose of Chesterfield, Mo., and Jane Ellis of Glastonbury; and her nephews and nieces, Brian and Karen Ellis, David, Max, Sam, and Morissa Pepose. She was predeceased by her brother-in-law Edward Ellis.