Nihla Mae (Libby) Lapidus, 89, of Middletown, died May 23. She was the widow of Robert (RJ) Lapidus. Born in Hartford, she was the daughter of Samuel and Sylvia Libby. She was also predeceased by her sister Marilyn Fried and her husband John. She is survived by her sisters, Gail Freedman, and Diane Schwartz and her husband Ed; her sons, Marc, David and his wife Fotoulla Nicole; her grandchildren, Zachary and his fiancé Jackie, Kyle, Ellie, Alex, Nicholas; and her great-granddaughter Maya.