Rita Sandra Bernstein. 74, has died. Born in New Haven, she was the daughter of the late Florence and Milton Bernstein. She was a member of Temple Beth Shalom. She is survived by her brother Jerry Bernstein and his wife Louise; his niece Leslie (Jeremy); her nephew Josh (Tamarah); her great-nephews, Ari, Samuel and Shekked; and her special friend Richard Olderman.