Elaine Weinstein, 84, of West Hartford, died May 5. She was the wife of Suander Weinstein. Raised in Hartford, she was the daughter of the late Gussie and Irving Friedland. In addition to her husband, she is survived by her sister Rosalind Friedland of West Hartford; her children, Craig Weinstein of Brookline Mass., Peter Weinstein and his wife Donna of Wethersfield, Ellen Gold and her husband Steven of Redding, and Paul Weinstein and his spouse Mike Rauske of Prior Lake, Mn.; her grandchildren, Ross Weinstein and Dana Colas, Michael and Adam Weinstein, and Samuel and Benjamin Gold; and her great-grandchildren, Zoe and Hudson Colas. She was also predeceased by her daughter-in-law, Paula Weinstein.