Mary Rutenberg, 74, of West Hartford, May 28. She was the wife of Gideon Rutenberg. Born in New York, she was the daughter of Thomas Hamill and Agnes McRell. In addition to her husband, she is survived by her brother John Hamill; her sister Claire Rosen; her daughter Julie Spivak and her husband Jay, and Jonathan Rutenberg and his wife Terry, and Jessica Peake and her husband Cy; and her grandchildren, Alexander, Rachel, Zachary, Blake, Caroline and Shane.