Michael Snyder, 62, of Holmes Beach, Fla., previously of Hamden, died May 25. He was the husband of Melissa Snyder.  He was an Army National Guardsman. In addition to his wife, he is survived by his children, Matthew Snyder and his wife Beth Rotenberg of Randolph, N.J., Holly Snyder of New York, N.Y.; his brother Robert Snyder of Elizabeth City, N.C.; his step-children, Rebecca Nathanson of Lady Lakes, Fla. and Elizabeth Flaherty of Exeter, R.I.; and his grandchildren, Miranda, Grace, Erin, and Brendan. He was predeceased by his brother David.