Joel W. Schweidel, 61, of West Hartford, died Feb. 15. He was the husband of Tue Lom. Born in Brooklyn, NY, the son of the late Simon and Irene Schweidel. In addition to his wife, he is survived by his children, Stacy G. Schweidel of Newington, and David A. Schweidel of Madison, Wisc.; his sisters, Andrea (Martin) Weiner of Long Island, N.Y., and Sharon Schweidel of New York City; and his sister-in-law Tue-Gin Chin of New York .