Toby Jesurum, 77, of Rye, N.H., formerly of Stamford died Dec. 19.  She was the wife of Robert Jesurum. She was born in New York.  In addition to her husband, she is survived by her three children, David, Alexander and Esther, and their spouses; eight grand-children; her brother, Alexander Schreiber; and her sister, Ana Lia Schreiber.