Elayne (Rosell) Dimenstein, 64, of Milford died Oct. 1.  She was the wife of Morton Dimenstein. She was the daughter of the late Milton and Sophie Rosell. In addition to her husband, she is survived by her children, Michelle (Jonathan) Lupkin of Teaneck, N.J., and Amy (Fred Bennett) Gitlitz of New York, N.Y.; her step-grandchildren, Marcie (Gerald) Dimenstein of Hamden, and Beth Dimenstein of Supply, N.C.; her step-son-in-law James Tendler; her grandchildren, Adam Dimenstein, Shira Lupkin, Jenna Dimenstein, Arielle Lupkin, Leora Lupkin, & Ilana Lupkin; her siblings, Richard (Rachel) Rosell, Alan (Judy) Rosell, Phyllis Rosell  She was predeceased by her step-daughter Carol Tendler.